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Woensdag 24 Februarie 2016

Song vir my Dad {Lief vir Pa}

{Pa Joos}

Dis nooit maklik nie
My woorde lê ver
Maar ek wil dit sê
So’k skryf dit in ‘n song vir my Dad
Soms is dit moeilik om die woorde te sê
So ek skryf ‘n song
Wat sê hoe baie lief ek hom het
En my ster … is nie ver
Want my held … is my Dad
Hou my sterk en so ek skryf dit in ‘n song vir my Dad

[Koor]
En al lê, al lê ‘n donkerwolk oor daai berg
Weet ek, die son skyn altyd helder by Dad
En al breek, al breek ‘n storm los oor die See
Weet ek, My Pa sal altyd daar vir my wees

En my ster, is nie ver
Want my held is my Dad
Hou my sterk,
En so ek skryf dit in ‘n song vir my Dad

Dis nooit maklik nie, my pen los ‘n merk
Maar ek wil dit sê
So’k skryf ‘n song vir my Dad

Kopiereg: Snotkop

Dinsdag 23 Februarie 2016

Soet-suur "issues"

Vandag was 'n soet-suur, ontplof, "PMS" daggie vir my.

In Pretoria was ek een van die rustiger mense wat ek geken het. Ironies. Lyk my plattelandse tipe plekke werk net nie vir my gemoed nie. Soos 'n paljas kombers vol kleure.

'n Dag vol seisoene. 'n Alanis Morisette "Ironic" tipe dag.

Ek het myself baie jammer gekry vandag oor my kar nie kan aanskakel nie. "Renault"het een of ander tipe "kaart" waarmee jy jou motor aanskakel, en myne wil glad nie die kaart lees nie. Ek kan maklik vir 15 minute  tot 20 minute iewers sit met die "card not detected" error. Nou ja, as mens so baie goed op jou "mind" het, en op +1 tydsone werk (ek oordryf dalk bietjie maar dit voel letterlik of my dae 'n uur iewers weg het) en Windhoek is so warm soos die hel self; dan is 15 min sit sonder air-con hier, en 15min daar en 20 min hier, en 5 min daar .... genoeg om mens mal te maak ... en dit gaan nou al rukkie so aan.

Alles kos mos baie geld om te "fix". Alles. En ek is mos nou werkloos. Vryskud-werker. Huis mamma. Blogger. Dromer. Skoonmaker. Kosmaker. Fixer.

Nou ja, vandag kom en "genoeg is nou genoeg". En daar kom die soet-suur toe ook sommer (en nee, ek verwys nie na stir-fry of sous nie).

Ek het in my woede-uitbarsting besluit ek gaan niemand seermaak nie, ek gaan nie van 'n berg af spring nie, ek gaan nie myself verloor (verder) nie. En toe kom dit, die foon, hy trek laat hy waai, en hy is flenters. Bye-bye "instant, digital communication". Net so. Genoeg is nou genoeg.  SUUR - vreeslik suur.

Hierdie selfoon het al alles oorleef. Selfs twee kleuters. Maar, nie my nie.

En, bye-bye kaart, daar vlieg hy ook. Die kar wil "any way" nie aanskakel nie. Genoeg is nou "nogsteeds" genoeg. En. Raai wat? Daar werk hy. Soos 'n "genuine" wonderwerk. Hy werk! En ons stop. En skakel weer aan - en hy werk. En ons stop weer- en skakel weer aan - en hy werk! Dis nou SOET.

Nou ja, dis nou soet-suur sielkunde. More skyn die son weer.


Alanis Morisette Jagget Little Pill - 1995

"Ironic"
"An old man turned ninety-eight
He won the lottery and died the next day
It's a black fly in your Chardonnay
It's a death row pardon two minutes too late
And isn't it ironic... don't you think

It's like rain on your wedding day
It's a free ride when you've already paid
It's the good advice that you just didn't take
Who would've thought... it figures

Mr. Play It Safe was afraid to fly
He packed his suitcase and kissed his kids goodbye
He waited his whole damn life to take that flight
And as the plane crashed down he thought
"Well isn't this nice..."
And isn't it ironic... don't you think

It's like rain on your wedding day
It's a free ride when you've already paid
It's the good advice that you just didn't take
Who would've thought... it figures

Well life has a funny way of sneaking up on you
When you think everything's okay and everything's going right
And life has a funny way of helping you out when
You think everything's gone wrong and everything blows up
In your face

A traffic jam when you're already late
A no-smoking sign on your cigarette break
It's like ten thousand spoons when all you need is a knife
It's meeting the man of my dreams
And then meeting his beautiful wife
And isn't it ironic...don't you think
A little too ironic...and, yeah, I really do think...

It's like rain on your wedding day
It's a free ride when you've already paid
It's the good advice that you just didn't take
Who would've thought... it figures

Life has a funny way of sneaking up on you
Life has a funny, funny way of helping you out
Helping you out"
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/alanismorissette/ironic.html


Activities for Kiddies

So, I promised I will be sharing some activities to keep the little ones busy. 

There are many blogs and web pages dedicated to keep Mommies from going insane. Today I am going to share some of my favorites with you. 


Anna Luther's  the MyLifeandKids blog:

http://mylifeandkids.com/25-quick-and-easy-activities-for-toddlers/#_a5y_p=3791848

What I love about Anna's blog is that she has activities listed for age-specific phases. From infant up tot six years and older - all categorised.

She is also on Facebook {currently with something like 33 000+ likes} for those of you who prefer this channel, go like her page:

https://www.facebook.com/mylifeandkids/

Anna also has nice craft project ideas for mommies and grannies.

Die following activity is also on of my favorite ideas:

http://laughingkidslearn.com/pasta-threading-activity-for-toddlers/

Kate @ LaughingKidsLearn

Sharing activities and ideas that make learning fun for kids!

What I like about Kate's page - "

What learning is achieved from this activity?"


Kate also pins about baby play ideas



Another favorite is this Pinterest Board and Blog:


If your kids are a bit older - try out these web pages for primary school teaching materials (see pic below)


Maandag 22 Februarie 2016

Calm mommy = calm kiddy

These are five things you can do to be a calmer parent:

1.Identify and acknowledge the anger

When your child does something 'wrong', it is upsetting from your point of view. Sometimes, you are fully aware that they are just acting their age, but the anger gets the better of you.

That's where you need to identify it and stop right there. It's okay to be upset about your child's behavior, but you probably know from experience that anger doesn't help things much. It only makes everything you say or do come out worse.

2. Listen, listen, listen before you speak

We instinctively assume things before we allow our children to express their point of view. Sometimes, even the silliest and most annoying behaviors have innocent causes. Your toddler was really curious about the potted plant, or your older kid just wanted to experiment with how a scissor works. The end result may be a disaster to you, but their intentions usually aren't to drive you mad. I have learnt from experience, even in the worst looking scenarios, to simply ask your child why they did what they did. Of course, you must then tell them why they shouldn't do it again - but listening to it from their perspective may help calm your anger, and also prevent your child from being even more rebellious.

3. Defer your reaction

You can't go from being angry to not being angry in just a few minutes. Take a deep breath and move away from where you are if you have to. Just don't react when you still have anger inside you. Give yourself some time to assess the behavior, and decide how you want to respond. If you make a habit of this, you will gradually become calmer and will project a gentler disposition to your child. But do remember to lay down the rules. Set the limits that can't be crossed and how you want your children to deal with the consequences.

4. Talk through your feelings

It's not just for children to communicate their feelings. Parents should be open about how they feel about their child's upsetting behavior. This must be handled in an age-appropriate way, of course. But talking about how you felt, even if you got angry, opens the doors to communication with your children. At times, I have even apologized to my toddler when I felt that my anger was way out of line for the cause. I did make it clear when something wasn't acceptable, but I admitted my mistake too. You don't have to do that, but it's not a bad idea to express why something annoyed you in the first place.

5. Take time for yourself "me time"

When you don't have a clear head on your shoulders, it's easy to snap at insignificant things. Some days are harder than others, and that's exactly when you should take a small break from the routine and just calm down and relax. Your schedule may only allow you 20 or 30 minutes of alone time, but use it to think about how you can make your day better and de-stress. You may even want to change the routine a bit to make yourself feel better. Whatever you do, don't lose focus on your well-being too!

Discipline

Calm kids

Some food for thought

Being a parent is not for the faint-hearted

Some days I wonder if I am the only crazy women-being on this planet?

Why do my kids mess the most in the world? Tutorial: Parenting techniques 101 - seriously, when my kitchen floor is covered in little icing sugar stars and melted ice-cream, self-served from my freezer, the last thing I need is parenting techniques 101... I need to... Breathe. Breathe a lot. 101.

Or more like someone please phone 911.

Could you give a 5 yr old and a 2 yr old freedom for just 30 minutes while you read a magazine? What could possibly go wrong?

{Floors covered in broken crayons, soap, cool drink, ice-cream, and, and... and}

Surely nothing could go wrong.

Other parents cope really well and their kids do not mess this much {whatever}

So, I have decided, this week I will share some tips.

Tips about, HOW TO:

Keep *them busy
Calm yourself
Get *them to clean {really clean}

*them = kids we love

Do these tips work? I don't know. I will write again once I have tested them. Bare with me.

{TG}

Fokus op vernuwing

Do you remember these? Onthou jy nog hierdie?

In Afrikaans we use to call them "Kwakkies" when I was still at school. You use to scribble colours or numbers with boyfriend names... to see who was intended to be your "sweet love".


This is a little different from that.


Easy "self-do" activity and a fun way to teach your kids the "ten commandments".

Enjoy.

Source: http://www.rachaelsbooknook.net/10-commandments-foldable/

{Depression - this affects us all}

Managing depression

Think about the biblical prophet Elijah from the Old Testament.
Elijah had a very close relationship with God and God used Elijah in powerful ways. Many people witnessed the greatness of God through him.

Elijah encouraged many people.

He helped a widow and her son who were down-and-out and had only enough food for one more meal.   
Elijah told the widow that God would provide, and He did. Later, when her son died, and she was in serious doubt, Elijah asked God to bring him back to life, and God did. This widow's hope was restored through Elijah.
Elijah did many other wonderful works by the power of God, but the Bible shows that, even great men of God, can get tripped up by the trials and challenges of living God's Way in a world under the sway of Satan. 

The story of Elijah's descent into depression is a classic.

Not only was Elijah hated and threatened with death by the evil Queen Jezebel, he also felt his work had been in vain and that no one else was supporting God. He felt totally alone, vulnerable and hopeless. Like we all sometimes do. Being human like you and me, all this started to get to him.

Elijah got overwhelmed and wanted to quit. No one knew Elijah was depressed. But God did.

God approached Elijah, and Elijah told God that he had been doing his best, but it was all for nothing. Elijah told God he was tired and just wanted to quit and die! 
God then did something surprising. First He put on a display of His power. But immediately afterward, He comforted Elijah by talking with him in a gentle whisper. God also quietly told Elijah that He had more work for him to do and let him know he wasn't alone. God showed Elijah He was more than just a mighty God of power. He was also a compassionate God that cared. Elijah's hope was restored (1 Kings 19:1-18).

What Does the Bible Say About Depression?

Perhaps you are tired too? Does it seem like you're doing your best, only to have one crisis after another come upon you? Do you feel like the world is crashing in on you, and there's nothing you can do about it? Do you want to just give up?

God's Word has plenty to say about discouragement and depression and how to deal with both.


We should also recognize that more severe forms of depression can lead to or be caused by certain physical and psychological disorders. We would encourage anyone suffering from severe depression to seek the guidance of a trained counselor or mental health professional in addition to applying the biblical tools discussed in this study.
Let's look at some relevant scriptures so we can learn what we can do to help overcome depression and its negative effects.

What is a root cause of depression?

Proverbs 13:12

Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.

Proverbs 18:14 (New Living Translation)

The human spirit can endure a sick body, but who can bear it if the spirit is crushed?

Job 7:6, 11

"My days are swifter than a weaver's shuttle, and are spent without hope...
"Therefore I will not restrain my mouth; I will speak in the anguish of my spirit; I will complain in the bitterness of my soul."
We become depressed when we lose hope. When we see no end in sight to our problems, thoughts of just giving up will surface.

Who takes advantage of this moment of weakness?

Ephesians 6:11-12

Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.

2 Corinthians 2:7, 11

So that, on the contrary, you ought rather to forgive and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one be swallowed up with too much sorrow...
Lest Satan should take advantage of us; for we are not ignorant of his devices.

Satan and his demons want you and me to fail. They want us to give up. 


So when we are discouraged, Satan will make sure he broadcasts his evil thoughts and ways toward us. We must guard our thoughts, or our minds will pick up on his wavelength, and we will become even more discouraged (1 Peter 5:6-9). (Our series of lessons on the Armor of God can be helpful in understanding and defeating these enemies.)

Where is the first place you should go when you are depressed?

Matthew 11:28-30

"Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."

Psalm 61:1-4

Hear my cry, O God; attend to my prayer. From the end of the earth I will cry to You, when my heart is overwhelmed; lead me to the rock that is higher than I. For You have been a shelter for me, a strong tower from the enemy. I will abide in Your tabernacle forever; I will trust in the shelter of Your wings.

Philippians 4:6-7

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Our human nature doesn't want us to acknowledge we need help, but God tells us to go to Him when we are discouraged. Even though Satan tries to broadcast his evil thoughts to us, God can protect us and give us an amazing and powerful peace of mind. Just as God strengthened Elijah's hope, He can strengthen ours as well (Psalm 31:24).

Where else should you turn when you are discouraged?

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up. Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; but how can one be warm alone? Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

Proverbs 27:10 (New Living Translation)

Never abandon a friend—either yours or your father's. Then in your time of need, you won't have to ask your relatives for assistance. It is better to go to a neighbor than to a relative who lives far away.
Turning inward is not the way to deal with depression. We need to be with our friends so they can encourage and help us. As we read earlier, Satan is compared to a roaring lion. A lion attacks one that is weak and separated from the herd. Being with friends and family will build us up, protect us and help us stay strong.

What else does the Bible say you can do to help overcome depression?

Proverbs 17:22

A merry heart does good, like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones.

Philippians 4:8

Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.
Joyfulness and cheerfulness are a type of medicine for our minds and bodies. It's good for us to smile and laugh! So when we are discouraged, we need to do something that cheers us up. Helping others also brings us a "merry heart."
Meditating on good things is also healthy for our minds, because it helps replace Satan's negative broadcasts with good thoughts. The Psalms remind us that meditating on God's law brings great peace (Psalm 119:97, 165).

How can a perfect God relate to the discouragement we experience as humans?

Hebrews 4:15-16

For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

Hebrews 12:2-3

Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. For consider Him who endured such hostility from sinners against Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls.

Isaiah 53:3-4

He is despised and rejected by men, a Man of sorrows and acquainted with grief. And we hid, as it were, our faces from Him; He was despised, and we did not esteem Him. Surely He has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed Him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted.
Jesus Christ gave up His spirit glory to live and die as a human. He experienced the same emotions and turmoil you and I face. He can definitely relate when we are depressed. The night before Jesus was crucified, He was overwhelmed with what was about to happen to Him. He pleaded with the Father for another way. The Father comforted Him by sending an angel to strengthen Him (Matthew 26:38-44; Luke 22:41-44).

When depression is caused by our past mistakes, what does God promise to do?

Psalm 32:1-5

Blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. Blessed is the man to whom the Lord does not impute iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit. When I kept silent, my bones grew old through my groaning all the day long. For day and night Your hand was heavy upon me; my vitality was turned into the drought of summer. Selah [a transliterated Hebrew word used as a poetic refrain] I acknowledged my sin to You, and my iniquity I have not hidden. I said, "I will confess my transgressions to the Lord," and You forgave the iniquity of my sin. Selah

Psalm 51:1-3, 7-10

Have mercy upon me, O God, according to Your lovingkindness; according to the multitude of Your tender mercies, blot out my transgressions. Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. For I acknowledge my transgressions, and my sin is always before me...
Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean; wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow. Make me hear joy and gladness, that the bones You have broken may rejoice. Hide Your face from my sins, and blot out all my iniquities. Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.
A guilty conscience can lead one into deep depression. God tells us to confess our sin to Him, and He will forgive us. True repentance includes turning from sin, which means we must try not to commit the sin again. Even though God will forgive the sin, we still may have to deal with the consequences of our mistakes. But again, God will be there to help us (Isaiah 41:10).

If you are presently overwhelmed because of financial, health or other serious situations, what does God want you to do?

Luke 11:9-10

"So I say to you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened."

Psalm 27:13-14

I would have lost heart, unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the Lord!
God wants us to tell Him our needs, yet at the same time be thankful for the good things we do have (recall Philippians 4:6-7). God expects us to do what we can to help our situation while also patiently waiting on Him to help us. God promises He will never forsake those who obey Him (Hebrews 13:5-6).

Finally, what does God want your mind-set to be when you are in a difficult trial?

James 1:2-4

My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.

1 Corinthians 10:13

No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.

Philippians 4:11-13

Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

1 Peter 5:10

But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you.
God wants us to think positively when we are in a trial. Hard times can make us better. Instead of dwelling on the negative, we should look for the good that will come from the trial. God promises that He will not allow us to be in a situation we can't handle if we obey Him. And although trials may last a while, He encourages us to be content and patient, knowing He will see us through this difficult time. Jesus said that when we put God first, we have no need to worry (Matthew 6:25-34).

Apply this {info} now

God doesn't want you to be depressed. 

When you're feeling overwhelmed, pray to God and ask Him for peace of mind. Do what is in your power to help your situation, then trust in and wait on God to do the rest. Take time this week to help others, and spend more time with your friends. Do something that will bring a smile to your face, and meditate on good things.
With continuous application of the principles in this lesson, together with medical treatment if necessary, you'll discover that your heavy yoke of depression will be lighter!


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Sondag 21 Februarie 2016

This ship will NOT sink... ever!

Do you {LOVE} your mother?

"A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts." - Washington Irving

'n Mens sal jou moeder se besluite nooit verstaan nie. Nooit regverdig vind nie. Tot jy self 'n Ma is.

Ma's kom in verskillende 'shapes and sizes' met verskillende verhale. En tog, al wat 'n kind wil hê is liefde, ondersteuning, aanvaarding.

Agter Elke ma wat soos 'n mislukking mag voel, staan 'n pragtige Jesus kind.

{TG}

Who said chocolate is NOT healthy?

Popsugar.com has got some fantastic recipe suggestions for nutritional or weight-loss smoothies.

Anything but boring.

Check out this vegan chocolate smoothie.

Who said you can't have dessert on a Monday morning?

Yummie...

POPSUGAR Celebrity

Apr 11 2015 - 2:00am

From Jenny Sugar, POPSUGAR Fitness

Vegan Chocolate Milkshake Smoothie

Ingredients

1/2 package silken tofu
1/8 cup cocoa powder
1/2 frozen banana
1/4 cup fresh raspberries
2 cups spinach
1 tablespoon flaxmeal
1 cup vanilla soy milk
3 ice cubes

Directions

Mix everything in a blender until smooth.
Enjoy immediately.

Source: Calorie Count [2]

Information

Category
Drinks, Smoothies
Yield
1 serving
Cook Time
5 minutes
Nutrition
Calories per serving
354 calories

Source URL:
http://www.popsugar.com/fitness/Chocolate-Vegan-Smoothie-34820459

When last? Did you...?

As grown-ups we often get so caught up in our duties ans responsibilities.

We miss so many opportunities. Time is not on our side.

When last, did you take them to the park?

Everybody says, the world is becoming a dark place. Are we contributors?

{TG}

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