Die klaende vrou (en ek dink alle vrou was al een of ander tyd hierdeur)...
Wel, haar storie begin as volg:
"Their wives' story usually begins with an effort on her part to be accommodating in the face of her husband's thoughtlessness. She mentions the problems she is having with decisions he makes in a polite and restrained way, but nothing ever changes. The problems he creates for her persist indefinitely and the resentment that accompanies them finally boils over. He wants her to forgive and forget but she cannot do either. The more she thinks about what she's been through the angrier she feels. And when she's alone with him, she lets him know about it.
The reason that this problem has persisted for so many millennia is well understood by most women whose husbands ignore their complaints. By expressing their displeasure with intensity, at least they are letting off steam, and once in a while they get their husband's attention. Many of these women I've counseled have told me that they know it doesn't do much good to keep rehashing the past, but they feel better when they do it. One husband told me once that he occasionally lets his wife lambaste him for about two hours because he knows that she will be in a much better mood when it's all over. But then he does nothing to address the problems she raises."
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